Hi Rob, In a little while, Stuart is going to notice that we blocked him and I wanted to take the opportunity to share with you what has transpired in the last 6-8 weeks. When Lee and Stuart went to P!nk together, I stayed home to mind our puppy as he can’t go for too long without company or he gets destructive. Stuart and Lee had many drinks at P!nk and then proceeded to go to a bar afterwards where there was an altercation that has not sat well with me since. Stuart may tell a different version of this story, but please know that what I say is only truth. Stuart placed his hand on Lee’s lap and asked Lee if he could kiss him, to which Lee, very drunkenly obliged. I am unsure if you are aware, but Lee and I are non-monogamous and so the physical act is inconsequential within our relationship, but I understand that it is not within your own. Stuart proceeded to continuously make out with Lee throughout the course of the night and professed to Lee that he believed Lee and I shared no emotional intimacy in our relationship and that it mirrored his own with you. Lee told me what happened the very next day and I confronted Stuart but I decided that I wouldn’t tell you, and that has not sat well with me since as I have always found you to be very kind and welcoming towards Lee and I and you don’t deserve to be left wondering, or be left with an alternate version of the facts. In conjunction with this, Stuart the engaged with me on many occasion, in sexually explicit messaging including videos and photographs via Snapchat. He shared intimate fantasies and experiences, like his fetish for having his butthole stroked because his nan did it. He also sent photos of his penis, ass and asshole to Lee and I and videos of him mastrurbating in the Footscray practice. On several occassions, including the labour day long weekend, he attempted to arrange a visit to see the both of us so that we could have a threesome behind your back. This never, and has never gone ahead and there has bee no physical contact between Stuart and I, only the kissing with Lee after P!nk. Stuart, for context, has also told me other (I believe) verifiable facts about your own sex life, besmirching your inability to be dominant with him and that you do not swallow during oral sex. On the long weekend just been, we were in Melbourne, seeing Wicked and visiting Subway after, to which he queried how he could leave you to visit Subway with us. Lee and I then proceeded to not respond so as to hopefully give him the hint that we didn’t want him to come. Last week, you probably noticed also, that Stuart had too much wine to drink one particular night, I think maybe Tuesday but probably Monday as he doesn’t work Mondays I have noticed. This is because during the day he went to Subway, where he engaged in oral sex with other men and fingered them. I don’t know if anything else happened as he did not gloat to us that anything else did. He did, though, tell us that he spent the next day feeling “tender” which would have actually been guilt. I know this is not the first time he has attended subway sauna and I also know that you caught him once before. He also enjoys sourcing massages, where he moans to get the attention of the massuese but I do not really have many details to share there other than he has tried many of them and enjoys the chase of seeing whether or not the other man will engage in masturbation or oral sex. I know that I have not hard cold proof to share with you, I do not believe in screenshotting messages or taking photos of peoples location on Snapchat to show where they are/ what they might be doing. But I trust that you take this as a caution and as a warning that something may be occuring behind the scenes more frequently than thought. He told me that you have opened up to the idea of potential threesomes and that you have a “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy. But I fear it is more “don’t tell” and no asking as he was having conversations, trying to arrange things with us on the day of and weekend of your wedding anniversary. For my part in all of this and for this long message as well as its contents, I sincerely apologise. I wish I had never engaged with your husband in this way or given any kind of indication that I would be happy to be complicit in enabling someone to lie to and cheat on their husband over and over again.